Memory Lane

I created this website as a way to share my guy with you and to create a bit of a legacy for him.

I then created profiles for Mikey's House on many platforms such as his Facebook page. . 

Mikey's House

His his Facebook Group...

Mikey's Cat House

His Tiktok page

Mikey's Cat House

There are more out there but these are the ones that come to mind.

He also has Instagram and Threads profiles but those have not been kept active over the years. 

Mikey's Cat House on Facebook is the nearest and dearest to my heart and where the majority of my postings have been concerning Mikey. 

I should have cross posted the content from there to here but I didnt do that. 

Now looking back I wish I had.

There are so many posts that I wish were on here and so I figured why not post them on here now? 

So that is what I plan to do. From now until I stop, I will be sharing random posts from Mikey's life and they wont be in any kind of order, just different posts that have touched my heart in some way or another.

So, I hope you will come along for the walk down memory lane with me..these posts belong on his website too. 

To all of his followers on Mikey's Cat House...Thank you for loving my little guy so much and for still honoring him even now by showing up everyday in his group. 

I love you all so much.

Stay tuned. ❤️

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Time

Time doesn't heal anything.

Life just goes on. 

Either you go with it or just remain stuck in the constant loop of feeling lost and sad. 

I dont believe we actually heal, we just get sick of being sad about something we have absolutely no control over.

So we suck it up and walk back into our lives and try to act like its all better yet, we know its not all better. everyone knows its not all better, it could never be all better because the only one who can make it better is no longer here.

But we can fake it, kinda. 

We can smile at people and have short conversations. Anything deeper will start the tears, so we keep it light. 

We try to just get through the day like a normal person but there is nothing normal about your life anymore. Everything just feels off.

There are moments of laughter and moments to enjoy but they are so short lived because all you can think about during those moments is how much better it would be if he was still here. 

If you point out a cat that is cute, Im going to tell you how cute Mikey was. 

If a cat does something funny, Im going to tell you about when Mikey did something similar.

If one of my cats isnt being lovey, I remember how Mikey was always lovey.  

Everything brings him to my mind because he is still so alive in my heart.

Time will never take him awày because I wont let it happen. 

If Im moving on he is moving with me which probably sounds counterintuitive but it's a fact.

The only thing that time is doing is reminding me of all the time I'm missing with my Moo. 

Thats it.

But here I am, getting through it.

Getting through it makes me so mad sometimes. 

I know this makes zero sense to a sane person. And thats ok. If you havent been through this, that makes me happy.

I actually dont feel sorry for myself at all. Im so grateful that God gave me something so special that I would love for the rest of my life.

I have been very fortunate. 

With great loss, there is great love.

Model is Mikey

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